Jan
Giving the Message
What impression do you think you would be making on someone who is seriously asking about your beliefs?
If a person were to ask you about Heathenism, what would you tell him? Would you talk about old Gods and old myths? Would you speak of Vikings and heroic sagas? Would you describe rituals and fests and pub moots?
What impression would that give him? Would he get a positive impression? Or would he think of comic book Gods, Renaissance fair type re-enactors, fantasy game nerds and a bunch of wannabe bikers having a beer bust? All too often, that is exactly the impression that people take. The problem is that Heathens do not consider how their explanations might sound to those unused to unconventional religion. Likewise, they do not know how to address a person who is seriously seeking alternatives to conventional beliefs.
Can you tell him how Heathenism can make a positive difference in his life?
Can you give him examples of how Heathenism brings real results that he can appreciate?
Using you own life as an example, can you show him instances where Heathenism has made a positive improvement?
Before you even think of bringing the message of Heathenism to others, you need to be clear on its advantages in your own life. After all, anyone can read books and discuss Gods and lore and Vikings. How many can point to improvements in their everyday lives?
Are you living better?
Are you earning more?
Do you enjoy better relationships with others?
If your life was a shambles before Heathenism, can you show changes? Perhaps these are things such as the police not coming to your house any more, or no more visits to the local courthouse. Maybe you can show that you are no longer suffering from a gambling compulsion, alcoholism, addiction or some other compulsion.
What are you bringing to the table?
The best thing you can give is solid proof that Heathenism has benefitted you. Talk about Vikings and Rune all you want, but all that talk is nothing compared to tangible evidence of improvement. However an inquirer may pose his question, what he really wants you to show him is something he can see. A person cannot see the favor of the Gods, but he can certainly see better living conditions, better relationships and a more respectable way of living. Talk is just so many words. Actions and items are proof.
