Sep
Assets
Self-reliance is a wonderful thing. In my case, the ability to do my own repair work has saved us thousands of dollars. It also makes us independent. Audrey and I do not have to wait for the handyman to arrive. The work can proceed at our leisure.
Inner strength is also a good thing. The ability to handle adversity with dignity is priceless.
There is another side to the coin. As good as self reliance is, there are occasions where help is needed. Sometimes you cannot do it yourself. Good sense comes in knowing when to do the work, and when to call for help.
Inner strength is wonderful, too, but it is not to be confused with stoicism. We have feelings. They do not make us weak. Our inner strength ought not make us lose sight of our humanity. We have emotions for a reason. It is perfectly normal to feel joy, sorrow, enthusiasm, disappointment, love, fear, anger, etc.
Self reliance and inner strength are assets. They enhance us and make us better. Let them be a help, not an obstacle. In all things, good sense and discretion should guide us. As with our other attributes, self reliance and inner strength work for us, not us for them.
